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Why people do what they do, and how to handle it.

“Most behavior that drives us mad makes more sense once you see what it’s doing for the person.”

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The Generous Guess

The friend who never admits being wrong. The colleague who interrupts. The relative with advice you didn’t ask for. Ten everyday behaviors, what is usually going on behind each one, what makes it worse and what actually helps. Free when you join the letter.